However, dating someone with a bad reputation can intensify normal stumbling blocks, perhaps leading you to wonder if the relationship is worth the doubts you feel.
When you get to the bottom of his player rep, and learn how to trust him as well as your own judgment, you may find that insecurities and anxiety fade. Perhaps the stories typifying your beau as a past player are exaggerated.
Your best bet for getting to the bottom of his reputation is to have an honest talk with him. On the other hand, maybe your guy confirms his past dubious behavior but vows he has changed or will.
Macfarlan and fellow researchers, published in "The Royal Society" in When you believe your dating partner has given you probable cause to keep your ears perked for suspect behavior, it can be hard to distinguish normal jealousy from the type of intuitive worry that could indicate something is wrong.